I didn't do any cleaning at all last night. I was on my laptop for a while, watched some TV and just relaxed until new guy called at 9 when his MMA class got out. I was the phone with him until I went to bed.
But I slept really well, got caught up on that at least. And today is FRIDAY! YAY! Very happy that the weekend is here. Really looking forward to seeing new guy again tonight. He texted me after we got off the phone last night that it kinda sucked without me there. :) I'm sleeping there all the time, it was weird for me too.. to be in my own bed and to be sleeping alone. Never thought I would miss sleeping next to someone, in his arms, especially after not that long.
But, I'm seeing him tonight. Not going out with my friends after the dance class for once and going to his place instead. And I have nothing all day tomorrow, until my friend is meeting me at my house around 5:45... my plan is to be home by 4:30 tomorrow.
I'm still not sure how I went from being completely on the fence if I even wanted another date with this guy to being in an exclusive relationship and spending more nights sleeping at his place than at my own! But it happened.
Last night he was too funny, telling me he'll put in my AC for me, he could do this for me, or that too... just sweet stuff and wanting to help me out in anyway he can. To basically be the man. Been a while since I've had that. Not really used to it all that much, but its really nice as well.
OH, and he laughs cuz I tell him he's the king of TMI. He tells me things I just don't need to know, but I guess that's good in a way too. When we were out the other night he was telling me how his ex was calling him when her boyfriend just broke up with her... he didn't get much of a workout in cuz he was on the phone with her.
Then last night he tells me about this girl Amanda he had a couple of dates with who he met on line a few months ago. He wasn't interested in her, but she was a good person. He had basically told her I'm not looking for something right now, lets be friends. He said she texted him all the time and they talked alot through that. He hadn't heard from her in days, so yesterday he texted her to see what was up. She didn't want to talk. He asked her what was up and she started giving him shit about me! That he didn't want a relationship and who was this girl in the picture on Facebook?
Funny too, cuz first he posted a picture of Fenway on Saturday. Amanda "liked" that picture. Then he posted one of the 2 of us. She didn't have anything to say on that one! LOL!
New guy told me that when she was saying everything in texts, he told her that he had already said him and her were just going to be friends and that he really hadn't been looking for anything... it just sort of happened with me. He's right. It just sort of happened.
But even though he says things I just don't need to know, I'm glad he does. I know he won't keep things from me. I know he'll tell me about the girls he's friends with, the ex's he still talks to now and again and the people in his life. Even being TMI, even with my jealous tendencies (I wasn't loving the start of his conversations about his ex and about this Amanda chick!), I'm glad overall that he does tell me things like that. He's comfortable enough to say it and I think because in his mind it isn't anything or any feelings or just any anything with these girls, that its something he can say.... part of conversation on what happens during the day.
Ok... 7:35. My coffee is gone, the news is repeating stories I have already seen, my email is cleared out and I've updated facebook with my "happy Friday" status. Time to get my butt up and get in the shower to go to work.
I'm so happy and grateful for the weekend. I'm still surprised at how things are going in my life, especially since I really really wasn't looking for anything and since I was so hesitant on this, but here I am. I'm kind of reluctant to use the "B" word, but I will anyway! I can't wait to go see my boyfriend tonight.
Yeah, not used to that yet! LOL! After a month? Really?
But if he said the other night that he wasn't expecting to be giving up the single life so quickly, and then last night after Amanda said something about me, he said that it just happened... I know he sees us in an exclusive relationship. And I know that it IS an exclusive relationship. Just very very unexpected to be here.
I really do have a boyfriend. Holy crap. How did that happen?? LOL! I have a boyfriend. And I really really like him and I love spending time with him. And I think about him as soon as I wake up and look forward to talking to him all day. He makes me smile when I think about him, laugh when I'm with him, and I just like where things are right now.
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