I think that's gotta be my life motto. My life is always in some sort of crazy state. Something is always going on. As much as I try to avoid having drama in my life, somehow it finds me. But even still, even with the craziness and the drama, Life is Good. I'm happy.
Overall work is going really well. I've sold 3 accounts this month and I'm waiting on the conversation with my boss to find out how the compensation will be done. Every little bit helps. These are only small accounts, but a sale is a sale. So... that's that.
I've been trying really hard to pay off and down debt its going ok. One loan is paid in full and another will be paid off in maybe 4 more payments. Then next year my car will be paid off too. But as usual, the ups with the downs.
The Bruins won the championship, making Boston officially the most hated sports town cuz we just rock! :) Gotta love it. The team with the longest streak without winning a championship is the Pats and that was last won in 2005. 6 years? A drought? Nice, huh?
My boyfriend. Yup, I said it. I hate labels so much, but really, there is no other way to say it. I mean, way too many words to say, "the guy I am in an exclusive serious relationship with." He's such a great guy, and considering he's used the B and G words, I guess I can too. It was nice today cuz he came over for lunch (took the day off, more on that in a few). It was just nice to see him. We sat and had lunch, I rubbed his shoulders, we kissed. It was great! I could get used to that!
I've really been having a great time with him. I'm happy with him. He's kind and sweet but you would never know it looking at him. He's just a big teddy bear covered in tattoos! Seriously, sleeves on both arms. On his really big built muscular arms. :) But he makes me laugh and he's there when I need someone to talk to and he listens. He's just a good guy.
What else? Trying to get the good stuff. As always, the fitness group, amazing. Love them. My friends are unbelievable and such great people. Especially with the bad and crazy things that have happened. I know I really do have friends who will be there and who I can count on. I'm really lucky on where I've come to in my life and I've made such amazing friendships with incredible women.
Funny... a few are doing the online dating thing. Two of them had guys mention me. LOL! One is a guy I had a couple of dates with! The other just recognized me in one of my friends pictures. How funny is that? Killed me!
What else? Jeff came home for the parade. Things were good and it was nice to see him. The boyfriend went to grandpa's for the cookout and me the whole family that day too. It was really nice. Yup, he's met the family. That's a huge deal for me. But considering I invited him for a few days down the cape with my family, he needed to meet them now, before the weekend down there. But he was great there and they liked him too.
So.. that's the good. Now the crazy.
Without getting into too much detail, they way I presented it to my HR person was, if I came to you with a hypothetical what should I do? So think of those stupid sexual harassment videos they show. You know the ones you laugh at, cuz they are so nuts and no situation would ever happen like that? Yeah, those. Well that's basically what happened. I mean, to have someone say, "I was thinking more along the lines of friends with benefits"... then toss in all the other things I'm not getting into including position in the company, relationship, friendships and so much more... this is just wrong on so many levels.
My HR person was actually much better than I expected. I don't want to pursue anything and refused to say anything other than hypothetical, but she knew I was full of shit and she was able to figure out exactly who it was. She said, "You know he should be fired, right?" And yeah, I do. Which is why I'm not going to do anything. If I officially said anything, then yeah, he'd be fired. And I don't want to do that. SO I'm going to let it go, as long as I don't hear another comment about how hot my body is now that I lost weight, how cute my butt is or my favorite... when I mentioned my boyfriend, "well, I hope the sex is good." Really?
So that was Monday at work. That night I was home. Without getting too into detail cuz I'll get upset again, my cat wasn't himself. I knew something was wrong. We were at the vet at 8am on Tuesday. I was a mess. I now have a kitty credit card to cover the $1200 the vet cost that day only, plus the $160 at CVS and we are going back tomorrow afternoon for more blood work. He is diabetic and now needs insulin injections twice a day plus he's on a special low carb, high protein diet.
He's still walking badly, his hind legs are still weak, but they are strong than they were Monday night. He looks better and he's more himself now. I'm feeling much better and so much happier that he's ok. I was a friggin mess on Tuesday.
I went into work at 10:30 after leaving him at the vet for tests. I picked him up around 5:30 last night, skipped my golf lesson to stay home with him and today took a vacation day to hang out with him all day. He's doing great!
I only left for 10 minutes to pick up lunch for me and the boyfriend, then I was home all day until 4:30 when I left to meet the people who were laid off at work for a few drinks. I got home around 8:30 to feed him and give him his next shot.
He's great for the shots too, takes them like a champ! So easy and so mellow. I just feel so bad though. I hate that this happened to him. :(
SO... even though I haven't really done anything to ask for drama in my life... I was so text book sexually harassed at work then thought my cat was going to die. It has been a pretty rough week. I'm hoping it starts to get better. At least there are only 2 days left of this week.
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